reach out to my ghoster
I know this sound so stupid but I reached out to my ghoster just asking if that person was feeling good and that door was open for a talk (got ghosted in the past and my brain can’t handle this again, i’ve lost weight, everything I suggest you guys to check my profile for the whole story)
it’s been almost a month since that person ghosted me and recently that person started watching my stories and that made me so frustrated that I had to do it. Not to restart the story but to at least have an explanation cause for those who remember my story that person ghosted me mid conversation while everything was good (8 month situationship shared a lot, acting as if we were together)
Now im wondering if that person would take the courage to answer or maybe explain their behavior but if I get no answer that’ll be time to really move on… which is going to be really hard when there were no signs, nothing.. I know it’s a fearful avoidant person, with extremely low confidence, fear of abandonment and dealing with depression but it doesn’t excuse the fact to ghost people.
I might sound ridiculous but I genuinely cared about this person, my feelings were true and we were planning several stuff before they did that out of the blue.. maybe one day that person would realize what they did if that’s not already the case and understand that someone had pure intentions for them and was ready to support them, love them truly…
Please be nice to me in the comments if there’s any, my mental health is a bit fragile these days