u/Historical-Row6609

Hi everyone- was wondering what people here think about the statute of limitations so to speak about emotional cheating.

What I mean is, assuming you just found out, how long ago would it have had to happen for you to be upset, really upset, not just for a fleeting moment because “it was the past”?

How long ago is too long ago to be so upset and to question things? Or is there no such thing? What if to the best of your knowledge things never got physical? Was hoping to get a consensus from others who have found out about an emotional affair that happened earlier on in the relationship but only found out after a couple years went by.