Im 23 and I just had my first driving lesson today I feel like I humiliated myself, I’m so terrified I’m going to hit someone that I break too much and too hard, I even get images in my head of a crash when I’m driving. After the lesson I was super sweaty and don’t feel well at all can someone please tell me it gets easier? I am especially struggling with turns.
Y’all, I’ve been watching driving videos on TikTok and YouTube and honestly the comments have made me feel so much more afraid, ashamed and dumb. These are videos of driving instructors teaching students and the comments are just flooded with people saying driving isn’t hard and people like that shouldn’t be on the road, etc. It’s really discouraging me bc I am a slow learner and I have a hard time with multi tasking. Knowing everyone in society looks down on people who don’t get the hang of driving right away just really scares me bc what if my instructor is like that too?
I’m almost 24 and I’ve never had a relationship it’s so humiliating, my sister is 5 years younger than me and has a bf. That’s something that hardly (f ever) is the case with people. I’ve been on two dates in my entire life, my first one being when I was 21. I’ve never even had a make out sesh, I had a quick peck on my first date and that was it the guy wanted to go further but I wasn’t attracted to him and he didn’t really have much of a personality either. I’m on dating apps but I don’t act desperate, I still make an effort tho. I just don’t get why it’s so hard… it’s one thing to still be a virgin at this age which is honestly embarrassing enough on it’s own, but to have never been in a relationship at all makes me feel almost in human, like I’m a different creature and living in a world I don’t belong in, I don’t know how to stop being insecure about it.