Do Black Women Tend to Assume White Men Find Them Unattractive?
I (24 WM) would say over the years I’ve built a preference for dating black women. Not that I exclusively go for black women, but that seems to be who I end up enjoy dating the most more often than not.
I started working at a large barcade a couple years ago. A few months later I began talking to a black girl (who did not work there) and took her on multiple dates. Well after about three dates and a couple hundred dollars later I decided I would take advantage of my work perks and get a few free drinks and games for a date a bit on the cheaper side for once. She was a very beautiful black woman and I could tell the employees were chattering about it when we would walk by. I think me and this girl went on one more date but I decided not to continue because I wasn’t feeling much of a spark.
After that, some chatter went around that I caught wind of that I “Liked black girls” and was even told by my friend who overheard 3 or 4 of the black employees saying I “have a preference for sisters.” While I never made efforts to deny this (because well it’s true for the most part) I noticed that suddenly multiple of the black females who didn’t pay me and mind before were being overtly flirtatious with me (like seriously, the timing was impeccable).
So with that context, I got to thinking, do black women who have a preference for white guys, or maybe even just fancy a specific white guy, tend to assume they’re not attracted to black girls until proven otherwise? Hopefully what I’m asking makes sense.