u/Hell0There2005

When she called I felt "ugh, im gonna get mentally drained talking to her"

She talks about her day and her work and coworkers and health and anything except me. And if I do get a "so how was your day" and I answer and mention something that excites me about my hobby she simply replies "thats good. Im happy for you." Then nothing. No follow up. No digging deeper.

Rinse and repeat. For you guys who say "who cares bruh, just say what you want and move on" you can't build emotional intimacy if you dont FEEL seen or heard.

If i do something she doesnt like she wont tell me. I figured this out and practically had to beg her to tell me what's wrong and then she does

Makes me. Feel like im her parent. What to do