Hello ladies,
I recently started speaking to a man with kids. It’s not something I’ve ever done before so I’m kinda all over the place about it.
I am 24 years old (no kids), though I have been married before. I don’t know how I feel about the fact that I will never come first to him, and I honestly wouldn’t ever want to be placed above his kids. But I know how much I’ll hate that, I don’t want to be in a relationship where I always feel like I’m sharing my partner, especially if his ex is still in the picture.
His kids are super young, which is also another major cause of concern for me. 3 children under the age of 5, doesn’t seem like enough healing time for him to be jumping into another relationship. I’m soo scared that he is just trying to fill up a void inside himself or find a rebound (separated just over a year ago).
Is this worth it?? Or should I save myself??
Also could he truly be healed in such a short period of time?? Or is he playing ??
Pls HELPPP😩💓