I keep trying to find the humor in this situation but I can’t. I’ve gone through a very rough few years with both of my parents. Yet, I still somehow found the courage to forgive them and move on. Well, I started school again and it’s hard juggling work and school. He told me to quit my job so I can focus on school. I live in a traditional family. My dad is the head of the house. Naturally, I listened and I did quit my job. Just a few days ago, there was miscommunication on both of our ends. The person in the middle pinned the blame on me in this situation and my father lost it. I arrived home from my last day of work, confused as to why he was mad. He yelled at me saying he was done dealing with me, with me dragging him around and using him as a bank.
I have never once asked for money and everything he had given me has been from his own will.
Since then, he has cut me off. He no longer talks to me. He ignores me. I am not allowed in the same room as him. He loudly talks shit about me while I’m in the other room, making sure I can hear him. He has gone no contact with me under the same roof. He demands that I pay him a certain amount of money at the end of the month. An amount he knows I cannot pay. It feels weird knowing just four days ago, he said he was proud of how far I have come. It feels weird being cut off knowing I was the one who was supposed to do it first. Not to mention, how much money I let him borrow and always remained silent about it. He’s a very toxic and mean man but I had came to learn to deal with it. I am put in this weird position of feeling completely helpless and overwhelmed.
How did you guys deal with being cut off? Does the weird feeling ever go away?