My husband, myself and our son are traveling to see family. We will return home on May 9. We have to go pick up or Dog from our friends who are watching him on May 10, and our church is having a mothers day service. I sing on worship so I told my husband I’d try and go to church.
Before leaving our friends asked if we wanted to hang out and before realizing mother’s day was the 10th I said maybe we could hang. When I noticed, I told my husband I’d rather not spend the day with our friends because I’d rather spend Mother’s Day with my husband and son (my friends don’t have children).
My husband told me I sounded selfish. And I told him I wasn’t wanting to do anything extraordinary. Just have lunch in the park, I mentioned wanting a small picnic with my boys and maybe flowers like a month ago and he didn’t seem like it would be a big deal.
But now he’s making it seem like it’s “too much” and we will have a “full day.” I didn’t protest, I just said “okay.” Obviously annoyed and looked up at the TV and he replied “Okay. We will do it. For you.” But obviously in a sarcastic and annoyed tone.
He’s never been one to make a big deal of anything, and i come from a family where we are big on celebrations. I’m just torn. I’m not asking for a lot but it’s hurtful that he’s acting like it’s a hassle to even consider doing anything. I just want to feel celebrated.
Am I overreacting for being extremely annoyed with him right now?