AIO: Ex wasn’t fully honest about his previous relationship
I (F29) began dating a man (M28) in January. He told me on our third date he was divorced and had been with his ex wife for 2 years. He said they had been separated for over a year and divorced officially for 6 months. This was a little bit of a shock for me because his dating profile had said he had never been married. Fast forward to now and I find out that they were actually married for 3 years and in a long term distance relationship for another 3 years before this. I also found out that 3 months before he met me that he flew to her country to try make things with her. In addition to this, while we were dating she had come to collect all her things from his house and spend time saying goodbye to him. He also didn’t tell me about this. It turns out also his official divorce papers didn’t come through until weeks after we began dating. I felt completely blindsided by it all, but he doesn’t seem to think there is anything wrong in this situation. He thinks I am unreasonable to be bothered but it is the fact that he lied and hid things that are concerning for me. If I had known he wasn’t officially divorced and that he had been in a 6 year relationship that he was actively trying to fix just a few months before we met I never would have began dating him. I ended things with him now but he’s making me feel like I’m crazy for being bothered by this?