u/Healthy-Coconut8528

27M and living in the US. I’ve never really dated before, but I’ve been talking to a girl (25F) for about 4 months now through an arranged marriage setup. She’s also in the US but we’re long-distance. We haven't even met or done a video call yet, just phone calls. We both in different professionals so sometimes way of thinking different she always think very emotionally. She seems very innocent and comes from a psychology background and I am from tech background . We match well on some things, but lately, I’m feeling stuck. She’s already brought up that she wants to have a baby by 30 because of health reasons. . I’ve never dated anyone before, I’m finding it hard to navigate. I don't feel committing anything as we both is in visa and not settled yet in job also.

Any advice from people who’ve been in a similar spot would be great. Thanks.

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u/Healthy-Coconut8528 — 10 days ago

27M and living in the US. I’ve never really dated before, but I’ve been talking to a girl (25F) for about 4 months now through an arranged marriage setup. She’s also in the US but we’re long-distance. We haven't even met or done a video call yet, just phone calls. We both in different professionals so sometimes way of thinking different she always think very emotionally. She seems very innocent and comes from a psychology background and I am from tech background . We match well on some things, but lately, I’m feeling stuck. She’s already brought up that she wants to have a baby by 30 because of health reasons. . I’ve never dated anyone before, I’m finding it hard to navigate. I don't feel committing anything as we both is in visa and not settled yet in job also.

Any advice from people who’ve been in a similar spot would be great. Thanks.

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u/Healthy-Coconut8528 — 10 days ago