To start off I don't like Iranians in general because of their mistreatment of Afghan refugees and just how racist they are to us. But one thing I admire about them is how little misogny they have in their community compared to us. Stuff they would start a roit over happens to Afghan women and especially girls on a daily basis.
I had a family friend who was crying because her dad wouldn't let her walk out the house without a niqab because her eid outfit was too beautiful. Mind you this women was in her 20s but wouldn't stand up for herself. That's the day I realized we really are cowards that don't like facing our cultural problems because we've been infested by the "what would people say" mindset.
There is just so much mistreatment of girls in our community it pisses me of just thinking about it. I have so many stories that are borderline horrific, like the type that had me questioning my whole existence after listening to them.
Then there was this video I saw on tiktok that I can't find, but it was basically slvt shaming iranian women because they compared their situation to us. Which I agree it's not comparable but to slvt shame them is just beyond me. the creator and the comment section could've used it as an opportunity to advocate for Afghan women but no lets slander other women for their clothing choices smh.
And don't get me started on how majority of our men think and operate like incels.