u/Haunting_Theme_4117

Nakakahiya aminin pero sobrang lonely and lungkot ko na

Lalaki ako and I feel like society treats us like we are not humans and should not have emotions like loneliness and sadness and worries etc. I used to have friends and had long term relationships before. Ngayon, parang creepy or weird old dude na lang ako na iniiwasan ng mga tao. While women are complaining about asshole men on the internet, they wouldnt even give time to get to know me. Kahit platonic friendships wala. People my age are all busy with their family and lives na while I'm just existing and being treated like im no longer relevant in this world. I feel like I should have died during covid when I got sick. After pandemic, my life just crumbled down. Kung ano ako dati lahat nawala and di na ako makaaahon kahit pinipilit ko.I think of dying all the time but di deserve ng parents ko that kind of pain. I dont think na suicidal ako, it's just that i dont see a good life ahead. And there was a glitch in the matrix or something. That I should have died.

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u/Haunting_Theme_4117 — 3 days ago

Went to a reunion and felt like a loser in life

Everybody is married and has kids. I dont have anyone. 2 lang kami na single. Yung isang kainuman namin pinapagalitan yung isang single na lalaki na katabi ko, saying stuff like playboy, takot sa responsibilidad and isip bata. Pero yung guy na single was actually traumatized sa last relationship niya and stayed single for 7 years na. He is pretty lonely, I saw it. I'll be 40 in a few years, i know na people assumed na playboy ako and highly possible na ako talaga yung pinariringgan nung other guy. The truth is, i got cheated on, in really awful way imagineable. It left me traumatized and broken. I havent tried dating after my last relationship, and matagal na panahon na din na single ako. Never tried hookups or flirting etc. Wala na ako makitang babae na pwede sakin, dahil din sa age and stage ng buhay siguro. when i happen to like someone, they are way out of my league. And I always feel na hindi talaga ako kamahal mahal. I know na i can truly love someone but it's like the universe is preventing me to be with someone, by simply fucking me up. I never had a bestfriend and now I no longer have friends. Being alone never bothered me before, but when i got comfortable, the universe made me yearn for someone and im not allowed to have it. Am i being punished?

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u/Haunting_Theme_4117 — 6 days ago