Trash people,trash comments
I posted a picture about my brother’s wedding, and in that picture, my sister-in-law was touching my brothers feet.
I genuinely posted that picture because it was the only one that kept things anonymous. In every other photo, my sister-in-law’s face was clearly visible, and I didn’t feel it was right to post her without her consent. My brother also looked anonymous in this one, so I chose it. It was literally the only suitable picture I had because I mostly just recorded the thali moment, and this was taken right after that.
I’m not here to explain myself to strangers, but some so-called pseudo feminists came under my post and started throwing nonsense. I blocked all of them, yet I still saw some of them posting about my post elsewhere.
One woman I don’t even know started getting personal in the comments, bringing up my mother and family, and somehow expected me to respond at that same level. I never will. now I can also get personal and say You know who often turn into pseudo feminists? Women with emotionally absent fathers, controlling family dynamics, or unresolved personal biases who get instantly triggered by choices that don’t align with their worldview. But did I make it personal or bring up their private lives? No, because that’s none of my business.
I am not up for personal attacks. How is that feminism?tearing down another woman who has nothing to do with the situation? And people were actually liking those comments. What exactly is so empowering about that? It’s literally a wedding post.
Then there were men acting all morally superior in public while doing questionable things in private, but I chose not to bring any of that up because unlike them, I know how to keep things respectful.Men who talk to minor girls are preaching in the comment section!
There was another woman posting her own pictures,and personal content online.Did I go under her post calling her an attention seeker or questioning why she posts herself? No, because it’s none of my business.Saying i hate these traditions…then don’t perform but who gave u the right to cook a whole story of what i meant
And why is a woman choosing to be submissive automatically a bad thing to you? Isn’t that also her choice? A woman choosing to be independent or choosing a more traditional role both are valid if that’s what she genuinely wants! you are exactly those woman who will look down upon a housewife, even when she chooses to be a housewife feminism is all about respecting choices
And when I said, “I don’t know if she’ll take care of the whole family, but she will definitely take care of my brother,” it came from pure love and happiness for my brother. It was me appreciating how kind and caring she is. We’re all grown adults why would she be expected to “take care” of us? But what’s wrong with married people caring for each other’s families? Marriage involves two people and, naturally, their families too.
And if you’re that desperate to be rebellious and make a difference, go out into the real world and help people who actually need support instead of picking fights over a random Reddit post where your unsolicited opinions were never asked for.
I never said only women should do that. Both partners should care for each other and their families if that’s the kind of relationship they choose to build. So twisting my words into “why should women take care of families” is completely missing the point. If someone personally doesn’t want family involvement in marriage, that’s their choice but projecting that onto my post and attacking me for expressing love for my brother’s marriage is and who are u to tell someone what they should choose