I've been with my partner for over a year now, and we're both young adults. I have undiagnosed but highly suspected (by professionals) bpd and audhd, and he's audhd. Is it normal, as someone with bpd, to feel not much towards your partner now that it's not a new and exciting relationship, even though you're certain you love him?
I'm 100% sure we're healthy as a couple, we communicate and support each other well, it just feels like I'm too used to him and it's starting to make me question whether I love him or not, even though I do. I'm not sure if that made any sense, it's kinda confusing to explain.
I love my partner very very much but I often feel nothing for him physically and mentally, even though I don't know what I'd do without him (he's my FP). Has anyone else experienced this, and if so any tips on how I can get over the feeling of boredom now that it's not a new chaotic relationship? (I'm fairly certain all these feelings are due to bpd, but I might be wrong ofc).
Hopefully someone else has experienced something similar 😭🙏