u/HalfNervous9449

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AIO my bf and bsf were sitting in a car for 30 min at 2:30am ignoring my calls

Basically what the title says. My bf went out last night with my sister and her bf (we’re all roommates) and I stayed home bc I’m sick and I had work in the morning. I woke up around 2:30 am to noise and I assumed they were back but I checked my boyfriend’s location and he was still by the bar… but like in a parking lot near it.

The bar closes at 2 and there is not anything else around it, just like wearhouses and lots. So I called him, no answer. I called again like 3 times and no answer. I checked my sister’s location and I saw she was home so I thought maybe someone stole my bfs phone or something so I asked the roommate group chat who was home and no answer. After calling everyone again and no answer my sister told me her and her bf were home. I called my bf again. A lot of times.

I asked my sister, well where’s my bf and she said “he stayed out with [my best friend’s name]”. I called her and she answered. I could tell I was on speaker in her car so if they were together, I knew he could hear me. I asked where my bf was and she said with her in the car and I said “…okay… why?” And I hear him say something, I don’t remember what, but then I just hang up.

They are really friendly with each other. They like all the same things and my bsf had like a thing in high school where she would just happen to like the guys that I did after I told her. She has a bf that she lives with too.

I’m not sure what to think honestly. I called him 13 times and he did not answer but he says they were just talking. I’m confused on how you don’t hear or feel your phone ringing 13 times.

He also did not tell me he invited her out. I found out when my sister told me who he was with at 2am.

He said the reason why he stayed out with her was because she said she was too drunk to drive so he stopped and waited with her.

When he got home he said they were talking about a recent argument me and him had and he was trying to get a perspective from someone who knows me really well.

I asked him to summarize it and he could only describe like one point.

AIO, this is weird right? I don’t even know how to get proof they weren’t fooling around.

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