u/Greenstoneranch

I went to a club to get a dance and the stripper I swear jumped right into a handjob. I froze and didnt stop it. I belive it happened as the club was emptyish and she was looking for a larger payment.

I immediately came home and came clean to my fiance. Told her I got the handjob and I feel terrible. I wasnt looking to offload my guilt but wanted her to know. I do love her and am sick to my stomach it happened.

We spoke briefly about it that night and in the morning but didnt get into the conversation on a deep level.

I am looking for ideas that will let her know how serious I am about this only happening once.

Going to obviously stop going to places like this and going to volunteer to share her my location 24/7.

Any other ideas.