Is my partner (19M) possibly cheating or hiding stuff from me (19F) ?
Me(19F) and my partner (19M) have been together with eachother for around over a year and more now, we have always been really
Open and loyal to eachother about showing eachothers stuff and we don’t usually go through stuff but if we did it would be okay. We broke up a few months ago a few times and had a rough patch but obviously got back together within a week or so and everything has felt good, not perfect but good. My partner is dealing with mental health issues and he told me how much he wastes away his life on his phone so he decided to delete social media like TikTok/Instagram since it’s full of slop and he tends to really procrastinate (I notice this) However, he decided to keep Instagram on his computer and says it helps him check it less. Since we broke up a few months ago neither of us put back profile pictures or posts of eachother (no particular reason tbh I just haven’t.) and it makes me suspicious. Why have Instagram on computer but not on phone? He still actively checks it? What’s the point. We follow eachother and stuff but I haven’t see him follow anyone new or anyone suspicious. I noticed we went to sleep the other day and his phone was left in the living room where we were last talking before we went to bed, so I checked it. There was nothing, but I find it so odd it even was in the living room but perhaps if he was hiding something he would’ve wanted to keep it close, instead in the living room where we last where before going to watch movies in my room show how much he doesn’t need his phone. He goes hours without it and seems to be fine without it so maybe it’s helping him. But I can’t help but feel like there’s something weird. I checked his phone when it was in the living room (I felt guilty I know) I didn’t find anything at all I went through 3 apps and there wasn’t anything. I don’t know, I just feel like he’s been a bit distant but he’s also had alot on his mind. BUT Here’s a key note \\\*\\\*he’s really worried and suspicious about me and has been wanting to check my dms and stuff\\\*\\\* which makes me beyond even more suspicious of where his conscious is.