u/GreedyEstate6742

Hello i want advise on if I should tell my girlfriend that she should stop or at least seek less attention , she still lives with her mom and sister , her sister has an immune disease (idk which one) so she was in and out of the hospital most of her life so naturally she got more attention, my girlfriend feels like she has always been second in line which is valid , but the reason im asking is cuz she alawys post on her story things like "pov:not being loved" and my hart breaks when i see stuff like that cuz she is the love of my life and my future wife , when i ask her about it she always says its nothing , and idk if she is just chasing that attention from her mom or if she is really hurting but she doesn't want to talk to me about it , and i dont want to be insensitive or controlling , its not that i want her to stop seeking attention, i just want her to stop hurting so idk if i should tell her to stop it or support her or try to convince her its not worth the efforrt cuz it is evident that her family sees her sister as a golden child due to her condition so i don't believe she is ever gonna get that attention. Please give me advise on what to do or tell me if im just being a massive dick