SHE (17F) BROKE UP WITH ME(17M) 😭😭
17M here.SO
about a month ago I got into a relationship with my long time crush. I was so happy about it. For about 2 weeks we spent a really good time and everything was going perfectly fine. Then suddenly , she texts me she wanted to break up . the reason being 1) her parents were strict and if she gets caught then 💀 2) She needed to focus on jee and was getting distracted by this. I was fine with her decision cause I respect her a lot and her decision(altho i think it wwould have been better to talk it thru before any decision) and her points were also valid specially the studies one (We both are the toppers of our batch and everyone has high expectations). Even I was feelling im getting distracted so ya it happened. We had agreed to continuing the relationship after the school was over ... so I was fine with that also ..Next two days, worst...... I felt so low and depressed .... I cant even explain in words. From the third day on we started talking the way we used to before confessing our feeling. that gave me some relief ngl. few days later she told me that she is getting distracted by this still and wants to keep some distance for a while.. I felt so sad after reading this mssg. all those feeling post breakup started coming back. Through a mutual friend I got to know ki she is blaming herself only for the breakup and is overthinking about it. She is not even talking to me about this....she is okay talking to other ppl about it but not me .......😭😭😭. I will only try to help obv. Actually she is not the one to be blamed. I should be blamed. I should have thought about it before confessing 😭😭Its all my fault 😭It is becoz of me she has to go through all of this.............................I really should have thought about it .............. if ur somehow reading this which is impossible but still..... just wanted to tell you it was NEVER UR fault.... It had always been my fault.....Please stop thinking about this and try to talk normally plz......
.I Still love her the same way...........Now it has been 5 days since we havent talked......it hurts me so much when she ignores me in the class but i cannot do anything. I had asked her friend to make sure she is fine. i feel worried for her but she is not talking to me what do it do 😭😭
Please tell me what can i do in this situation so that things get back to
normal?