My previous APs were either friends I had known for a long time or coworkers. The dynamic was always very clear: physical, discreet, and never emotional.
Now I’m dealing with something different. I have a strong attraction to a man(42) who is married and has a kid, and I feel like there’s definite sexual tension between us, lingering touches, charged moments, and conversations that flow almost too well. Whenever we talk on the phone, the chemistry is intense, and I can’t help but imagine what it would be like if things crossed that line.
The part I’m struggling with is how to signal that I’m open to it without making it seem like I’m emotionally attached or looking for something deeper. My family is, and always will be, my first priority. I’m not looking to complicate my life emotionally.
For those who have been in a similar situation, how did you make your interest clear while also setting the tone that it was purely physical and discreet?