This one is wild so buckle up
My ex husband who I was married to and have 2 kids with used to not let me work and only use me to pimp me out to people online by doing sx work online. He would bring the kids to my family and watch me do eveything at our apartment. He never allowed me to touch any of the money he controlled everything and marketed me even at my lowest where I was sick and tired of it he would guilt trip saying I can’t even the bare minimum.
He took a trip or so called his “work trips” met a girl in CA and he started being even more abusive to me. He would also r*PE me while my kids slept next to me. It was horrible I truly felt like I was an object for his own amusement. He then filed for divorce I re read the document 1000xs and it said nothing about my kids relocated to VA so I signed. Turns out I actually signed my rights away as their mum. He made me miss my court date because he intentionally had it sent to my parents place even though I was still residing with him.
I missed the court date and he got everything I only found out all of these work trips because now I’m going to nursing school and being more stable in my life like how I was supposed to be from the beginning. My parents took out a loan and helped me grab a lawyer. I have everything documented from the beginning of when he met this woman and to him still being weird with me asking me for nudes and rubbing his ….yea while my kids sleep when he came to visit with them last time.
My life was a mess and I’m currently aiming for something bigger and better ….im going to school and getting this degree for my babies. Obviously he told the court what I used to do but I have everything documented he claimed himself as my “manager”and would market me in places I didn’t even know existed (I recently found pics of myself where he maybe used to get money out of people) in apps that I wouldn’t have known.
Idk why he wants to use my kids to control me I’m not a bad mom in fact my kids beg to see me when I talk to them clearly he doesn’t want that. He is asking for me to pay his court fees ??? I never asked a dime from this guy not even alimony but he asks money from me.
Idk I’m scared because I haven’t ever been through this and in all honesty I just want my rights back