Girlfriend(22 F) doesn't want to be physically intimate with me(20 M) anymore?
My girlfriend just doesn't want to get physical anymore. She refuses to kiss me and sometimes won't even let me hold her sometimes. We've been together for more than 8 months now. Everything was going pretty fine at first. We kissed like two weeks after seeing each other,the sex was great too when we started a month or so after we started dating. The thing is that for the last month she has just been avoiding me physically altogether. We had a pretty big fight before then but we both realised how wrong we both were,things seemed to come back to normal and everything seemed fine on the surface. Then she started holding out,said she needs a little time. I understand and give it to her. But even after all this time she is just the same. We haven't gotten any closer physically and at this point it feels like we are just friends who are committed to each other. She seems more emotionally available now and that was what the fight was about basically but now she isn't into doing anything physical at all. It's like I gained one thing from her and then lost another
And then she keeps making excuses like she just used to kiss me and have sex before because I WANTED that and that she has always been this way which sounds like total bullshit because she was loving it too