I want to understand u guys better
I’m a Taurus sun, Gemini moon, Cancer rising. He’s a Capricorn.
We’ve known each other for 4 years, and it’s always been on and off. Every time, he suddenly says his schedule is full (usually with other friend groups instead), so I back off and live my own life because it feels like he’s not really interested or investing much into this.
Then we go silent for a few months or longer.
But whenever we randomly meet again, he comes up to talk to me and says things like, “Invite me if you want to do something. If I’m free, we can hang out.”
So I’m confused — are Capricorns usually like this? Does he just see me as a fling, or does it depend on the person?
I know a lot of people will say “just ask him directly,” but my point here is more about whether this is a common Capricorn trait. I’ve heard Capricorns tend to show care through actions rather than words, but disappearing for months and then acting like nothing happened confuses me. I can’t tell if that means he cares in his own way or simply doesn’t care that much at all.