u/GovernmentSmall6789

I am a stay at home mom with four kids. My husband is emotionally and physically abusive. He has cheated almost every year of our marriage. I am unhappy and it’s not teaching our children what love is. I’m tired of saying “when it’s good it’s good”.
How do I do this? I cannot get a job. He won’t let me. We own a house and my car is paid off. I have no degree. No savings. Please give me advice. I have no one in real life that I can open up to.