u/Goutte_dans_locean

Hey ! Hope you are all doing well.

My (26 AFAB NB) partner (29 AFAB NB) is starting testosterone shortly and I am terrified shitless about it. I am mainly attracted to women and fem nb ppl and I have no idea if I will be confortable with their body post transition ; I want to be but I have not way of being sure. It is nerve wraking for them as well because they have to deal with this incertainty along with their transition and the fear of how to navigate society while visibly trans.

This anxiety is weighting on both of us. Did anybody went through something similar ? Do you have any tips to navigate this ? How to be supportive and there for my partner while dealing with these feelings ?

Thank you for your attention ❤️.