u/Good-Huckleberry-287

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Hi everyone, I’m Esther.

I’m giving this another try and would be happy to connect with a man who genuinely feels aligned with the kind of relationship I’m hoping to build.

Area of work

I work in business development/commercial sales in the industrial field. It’s niche, technical, and surprisingly interesting. I sell things most people have never heard of, to industries most people don’t think about, and somehow I genuinely enjoy it.

I also get to travel around Europe a couple of times a year, which makes me seem way more glamorous than I actually am, because I mostly answer emails and calculate costs in my IKEA chair. 😁👩🏻‍💻

Hobbies / interests

I love deep and fun conversations, writing, journaling, travelling, books, cozy cafés, and laughing at things I probably shouldn’t find that funny.

I’m playful, and I genuinely believe a good sense of humor is a survival skill in this economy. 🥲

Christian journey

My faith is central to my life. Jesus Christ is my personal Lord and Savior, and I want to build a life that honors Him.

Denomination-wise, I’m a little hard to put in a box and don’t care much for rigid labels. I lean charismatic/Pentecostal in how I understand God and the Holy Spirit: alive, personal, and active today. I’d describe myself as Spirit-led, grace-aware, and still biblically conservative.

I’m drawn to sincere faith more than polished Christian language. I value humility, prayer, biblical conviction, and someone genuinely trying to walk with God in real life.

Family

I have never been married.

I have an 8-year-old son who is with me 100% of the time. I’m not looking for someone to “rescue” me or step into a role overnight.

My son’s stability, peace, and wellbeing matter deeply to me, so I would only build with someone who is mature, patient, kind, and genuinely open to that part of my life.

I completely understand that this reality may not be for everyone, and that’s okay. But if you already sense it could become an issue later, it’s probably wiser not to reach out, because this part of my life is not negotiable. 🙂

I would also like more children, and I’d love someone who, beyond being okay with having children, genuinely looks forward to being a father.

What I’m looking for

I’m looking for a God-fearing man who is serious about building a Christ-centered marriage, not just a nice conversation that goes nowhere.

I’m drawn to someone steady, kind, responsible, emotionally mature, and clear about what he wants. I’m not looking for perfection, but I do value a man who has direction and is actively building his life with wisdom and integrity.

Age range

Approximately 30–42.

I’m open to slightly outside that range if there is genuine alignment.

Long distance / relocation

I’m based in France. 🥖🇫🇷

I’m open to long distance if there is consistency and a realistic plan. Romance is lovely, but so are calendars, communication, budgets, and two people being honest about what they can actually do.

Relocation is something I would consider for the right man. I’m romantic, but I also think love needs wisdom, planning, and eventually someone booking an actual flight.

A little bit more about me

I’m loyal and warm with a little spark. I take faith, love, and building a life seriously, but I also joke around a lot, sometimes at the exact moment I should probably be acting normal. 😅

I would say I’m serious about life, but I don’t take myself too seriously, if that makes sense. 🤓

I value peace and stability, but not the dry, silent kind where two people technically communicate and nobody has laughed since 2018.

Ultimately, I’m looking for friendship, a genuine connection and a lot of laughter.

How to reach out

If you think we might be aligned, I’d love to read a thoughtful introduction from you with a few photos, and something more interesting than “hey,” if at all possible. 😅

I’m only comfortable chatting when there are pictures from the beginning. I don’t mean that harshly, I just think mutual attraction, honesty, and basic transparency matter.

Hi everyone, I’m Esther.

I’m giving this another try and would be happy to connect with a man who genuinely feels aligned with the kind of relationship I’m hoping to build.

Area of work

I work in business development/commercial sales in the industrial field. It’s niche, technical, and surprisingly interesting. I sell things most people have never heard of, to industries most people don’t think about, and somehow I genuinely enjoy it.

I also get to travel around Europe a couple of times a year, which makes me seem way more glamorous than I actually am, because I mostly answer emails and calculate costs in my IKEA chair. 😁👩🏻‍💻

Hobbies / interests

I love deep and fun conversations, writing, journaling, travelling, books, cozy cafés, and laughing at things I probably shouldn’t find that funny.

I’m playful, and I genuinely believe a good sense of humor is a survival skill in this economy. 🥲

Christian journey

My faith is central to my life. Jesus Christ is my personal Lord and Savior, and I want to build a life that honors Him.

Denomination-wise, I’m a little hard to put in a box and don’t care much for rigid labels. I lean charismatic/Pentecostal in how I understand God and the Holy Spirit: alive, personal, and active today. I’d describe myself as Spirit-led, grace-aware, and still biblically conservative.

I’m drawn to sincere faith more than polished Christian language. I value humility, prayer, biblical conviction, and someone genuinely trying to walk with God in real life.

Family

I have never been married.

I have an 8-year-old son who is with me 100% of the time. I’m not looking for someone to “rescue” me or step into a role overnight.

My son’s stability, peace, and wellbeing matter deeply to me, so I would only build with someone who is mature, patient, kind, and genuinely open to that part of my life.

I completely understand that this reality may not be for everyone, and that’s okay. But if you already sense it could become an issue later, it’s probably wiser not to reach out, because this part of my life is not negotiable. 🙂

I would also like more children, and I’d love someone who, beyond being okay with having children, genuinely looks forward to being a father.

What I’m looking for

I’m looking for a God-fearing man who is serious about building a Christ-centered marriage, not just a nice conversation that goes nowhere.

I’m drawn to someone steady, kind, responsible, emotionally mature, and clear about what he wants. I’m not looking for perfection, but I do value a man who has direction and is actively building his life with wisdom and integrity.

Age range

Approximately 30–42.

I’m open to slightly outside that range if there is genuine alignment.

Long distance / relocation

I’m based in France. 🥖🇫🇷

I’m open to long distance if there is consistency and a realistic plan. Romance is lovely, but so are calendars, communication, budgets, and two people being honest about what they can actually do.

Relocation is something I would consider for the right man. I’m romantic, but I also think love needs wisdom, planning, and eventually someone booking an actual flight.

A little bit more about me

I’m loyal, warm, and playful with a little spark. I take faith, love, and building a life seriously, but I also joke around a lot, sometimes at the exact moment I should probably be acting normal. 😅

I would say I’m serious about life, but I don’t take myself too seriously, if that makes sense. 🤓

I value peace and stability, but not the dry, silent kind where two people technically communicate and nobody has laughed since 2018.

Ultimately, I’m looking for friendship, a genuine connection and a lot of laughter.

How to reach out

If you think we might be aligned, I’d love to read a thoughtful introduction from you with a few photos, and something more interesting than “hey,” if at all possible. 😅

I’m only comfortable chatting when there are pictures from the beginning. I don’t mean that harshly, I just think mutual attraction, honesty, and basic transparency matter.