Anyone else here found out about Pattaya AFTER they got married?
I used to live in the west then moved to China after meeting a girl from there who I met back home. I've not been to Pattaya but I heard about it on a documentary about Thailand which I was watching as I was planning to go there.
Damn, after reading about it it looks like Elysium, heaven on earth if you're a guy (and hell if you're not careful). Is anyone else here on this sub in a committed relationship and have that part of them that wishes they could go for a week and have no stings casual fun but know they can't without either lying or causing a potential issue? Maybe you DO go? No judgement.
For context my relationship is good and my wife is loving, career focused, more open minded and understanding about sex, fantasies etc than your typical east Asian girl (who's not from Pattaya). Just not the point where she'd likely be ok with me going there. We don't have kids together although she has a daughter from a previous marriage and we don't own property together. We're late 30s and have been together for 6 years now.
Maybe this is that instinctual male urge for veriety that comes along in time. Sigh.