We’re going for 3 years now and at first he was very supportive and I thought he’s different from others. He was a student when we met and I was working for 5 years already at that time. He’s a year older than me. He only worked in total of 3 months his whole existence and he gives me opinions about work and how I look tired everyday, how I have changed physically He’s trying to be in business industry but always fail then today we argued about what his business needs and he gave this one comment that made me think why is he my biggest hater and how can I let this happen. He said “you cant be a business owner” just because I told him he might need a proper vehicle for his rental business
Does he hate me because I am the provider? He lives in my apartment and pay nothing. he always use his past as an excuse about this behavior but I dont think its fair for me as I have nothing to do with His past. Yes, I should be empath for what happened to him but he can use that as an excuse to ne an asshole.
edit: I also want to add that he never praises me for anything. for putting food on our table, for doing the laundry. While sits or lay down in my apartment that I pay for. I was asking him nicely to to do some chores while I work because I would do the same if hes at work but I dont know, sometimes I feel like hes making me feel bad and he wont talk to me at all. This can go on for days. I just dont appreciate this attitude I mean I never ask him to pay for anything but atleast get your ass up and maybe wash your own clothes.