I feel like this is kind of stupid but my girlfriend wears this outfit with a tight, low cut tank-top and refuses to cover up. It’s not a big deal but i’m pretty confused how to feel about it so i’m just here to ask for opinions. Like I just said, she wears said outfit and doesn’t cover up when i ask her to. She wears a zip up with the tank top, but the zip up is usually only zipped towards the bottom. I’ve asked her multiple times to cover up and that it makes me uncomfortable and she just doesn’t. For my standards, and for our schools standards, she is a pretty attractive girl so i’m very insecure when it comes to how she dresses and acts in public. On top of the fact I would say she’s “well endowed.” I don’t doubt at all that guys would like to stare or catch a couple of glances at her chest. The tank top isn’t like so low-cut it shows almost her entire boobs, but it shows enough to the point where a guy might be interested. That relates to where i’m confused, we were talking about it and she was getting kind of fussy and she said “you should be mad at the guys looking, not at me.” That really opened my eyes to how one dimensionally i was viewing the situation, and it makes me confused on how i should feel. Should I be mad at the guys being weird or should i be mad at her for refusing to cover up and wearing something i’m uncomfortable with? Like i said it’s not a big deal im just here for advice to decide how i should feel about the situation.
Edit: I don’t think this matters but I just wanted to state me and her have been dating for 2 years and 5 days. So trust me she knows how insecure i am and how bad my trust issues are. I say that because maybe she’s wearing it for someone else, which she’s (maybe, i’m not sure) done before. BUT, I must state the only reason she did it is because of something I did. And yes what I did was bad. I’m not exactly sure if she did it for him or not or if it was purely coincidence but I don’t know. I hope maybe that adds a little bit more context to where i’m coming from.