How to process possibly finding “the one”?
Apologies in advance for the long text… My (27F) partner (30F) have been together roughly 1mo. We met when she was on a med school rotation at the pediatrician office where I started working 4 wks prior. For reference, I didn’t know she was interested in women but saw her while scrolling through a dating app. Naturally, I swiped due to the fact we had built somewhat of a friendship in passing in clinic and I thought she was absolutely beautiful. I quickly asked her to hang out and show her around my city. I would say pretty much immediately after first hanging out, I had this overwhelming feeling that she was “the one”. I even mentioned to my roommate how drastically different this felt compared to other relationships. For context, this would be my 4th serious relationship, one of which was an engagement that ended when I was 23. This would end up being her first wlw relationship and her first serious relationship period. She later disclosed that she also has never felt this way, and she also felt in a similar way that she knew right away she wanted to be with me. Over the last month, she quickly became everything I’ve ever wanted in a relationship as far as how she makes me feel and how her goals align with mine.
She’s currently in med school roughly 2 hours away and starts applying for residency at the end of the year. She has mentioned she plans on being in the same general area for residency but we will still obviously be long distance. I plan on attending nursing school next fall in my hometown.
Could this just be new wlw energy especially since this is her first wlw experience? What are your LDR success stories that would give me relief? All of it just seems too much of a coincidence that she walked into my life. Again, sorry for the rant but it needed to be said.