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Imagine paying $1000 for 15 years. But everyone else in the building is doing the same. Isn’t this a horrible investment just in the name of a place for family to stay or when you visit once a year? I have trouble understanding why people do this if your uncles and aunts are going to be your neighbors.. can’t you just stay in theirs? Or is it manipulation to have family ties bonded to you.

Why do I have trouble understanding why Filipino people would send money back to pay for a condo? Is it common for 2 uncles and an aunt all to have condos in the same place and pressure you into one too that costs years and years to pay?? Doesn’t this type of thing lead to burn out???? Cause stress and pressure to work very hard for years? I feel like it’s coerced manipulation to ask someone to do this. If they feel shy to say no too! when an uncle will (mansplain) things like this to you.And you give in to the pressure and just pay for years. What’s the group’s experience with condos that sit unoccupied that you are paying for????? Does you family believe it’s their condo too???? Even if you slave long hours to pay for it and you are the only one whose name is on the property?

Why do I have trouble understanding why Filipino people would send money back to pay for a condo? Is it common for 2 uncles and an aunt all to have condos in the same place and pressure you into one too that costs years and years to pay?? Doesn’t this type of thing lead to burn out???? Cause stress and pressure to work very hard for years? I feel like it’s coerced manipulation to ask someone to do this. If they feel shy to say no too! when an uncle will (mansplain) things like this to you.And you give in to the pressure and just pay for years. What’s the group’s experience with condos that sit unoccupied that you are paying for????? Does you family believe it’s their condo too???? Even if you slave long hours to pay for it and you are the only one whose name is on the property?

Why do I have trouble understanding why Filipino people would send money back to pay for a condo? Is it common for 2 uncles and an aunt all to have condos in the same place and pressure you into one too that costs years and years to pay?? Doesn’t this type of thing lead to burn out???? Cause stress and pressure to work very hard for years? I feel like it’s coerced manipulation to ask someone to do this. If they feel shy to say no too! when an uncle will (mansplain) things like this to you.And you give in to the pressure and just pay for years. What’s the group’s experience with condos that sit unoccupied that you are paying for????? Does you family believe it’s their condo too???? Even if you slave long hours to pay for it and you are the only one whose name is on the property?

Why do I have trouble understanding why Filipino people would send money back to pay for a condo? Is it common for 2 uncles and an aunt all to have condos in the same place and pressure you into one too that costs years and years to pay?? Doesn’t this type of thing lead to burn out???? Cause stress and pressure to work very hard for years? I feel like it’s coerced manipulation to ask someone to do this. If they feel shy to say no too! when an uncle will (mansplain) things like this to you.And you give in to the pressure and just pay for years. What’s the group’s experience with condos that sit unoccupied that you are paying for????? Does you family believe it’s their condo too???? Even if you slave long hours to pay for it and you are the only one whose name is on the property?