My brothers upset
my brother has an ex girlfriend that he has had a child with. Some years have passed and they're broken up, alot has happened but now it's a terrible situation for my brother. My nieces mother is quite the person, hell on earth honestly. she's very aggressive with my brother and often is making mistakes that she pins towards my brother almost every time they interact. it's like watching him go through hell with a human person.She often spins situations into chaos and is often irrational, asking my brother for money for his daughter but uses it for something selfish. she lies, cheats and is stealing. I don't fully have knowledge of their situation in terms of legal restrictions, I know my brother is not allowed to talk to her or allowed to stay in the same home. they both do report to I think a lawyer? I tend not to ask as again, my brother can ESCALATE.
my brother is a good man, I feel he's the only person that's literally me in a way. he is more prone to his anger though, sad to say it gets the better of him often. he can escalate himself and can start to break things. it's sadly obvious that he is in a terrible situation with this woman. he often mentions that she told him she wouldn't "act like a terrible baby mama" and has been like that since my niece was born. I assume money and mental issues are her struggles.
I only ask, how can I support my brother? I often go with him when he meets her or drops off his daughter in case they do get it in a fight. I'm not a talker, but I see the patterns and what hurts him in what he says. ofc I can only do so much and just make sure my brother and niece are safe.