Met a girl on Bumble (both early 30). She always took a few hours to reply, but always showed interest and sending multi messages at once. I’m not a big fan of that dynamic but I just accepted it.
She gave me her number and about 10 days later we went on date, kissed the whole time, and it felt great as it should be. After that we kept texting daily and she said she liked meeting me and we both agreed on second date.
Two weeks later on Friday, she told me she was very tired and busy from work, going to sleep, and would reply me properly next day. She even said she didnt want to leave me without a message that day.
After that, a full week with no message. At that point I assumed it was ghosting. So I sent a simple “are you okay?” on Friday night. No response. By Saturday around noon I removed her from social media and deleted her contact on WhatsApp.
It always hurts losing someone you really like without clear explanation. One week later she was back on Bumble with a new profile (probably resetting the algorithm).
Now I’m just trying to understand if it’s clearly loss of interest/ghosting, or did I act too quickly removing her?