Well, hello virgin community I have come with some news that I thought would never happen in my life. I feel like I’m obligated to tell this bc of how long I’ve been in here but I have officially lost my virginity as a 23M. I wouldn’t say I’m the most handsome guy but I feel like I’ve had somewhat of a glow up from trying to better myself in a way.
I ended up losing it to one of my mutuals on Instagram. We originally met off Wizz and just added each other on Instagram. We didn’t start messaging each other until a year later which is this year around the end of March. We had getting to know you convos and she said she wanted me to do a mukbang just for her bc I was going on a trip. Then when I got back from the trip we texted some more and she seemed like she was really feeling me so she asked if I could pull up on her in the middle of the night. But i couldn’t so then we planned for a time we could see each other. She ended up getting on a punishment from her mom so we couldn’t hang out on the date we scheduled so we rescheduled and she does hair so the new date was for a hair wash. This is in May now. We make it to the hair wash date. And I finally get to see her in person. She washes my hair and we do a little flirting. I stay a little longer so I tell my ride not to come pick me up yet. I was slightly awkward because I had never even touched a girl before. We just hugged and talked but she was giving me hints as well that I was too scared to pick up on at the moment. But I did end up feeling more comfortable and she was very energetic so I feel like that helped a ton. She even took a lick at my neck when I asked her to smell my cologne. But after that I left and I hugged her goodbye. Then we missed each other so we wanted to see each other again. We tried to figure out a time to watch this horror movie that came out but I’m usually off work on weekends so we were planning next weekend but I was like, actually what about tomorrow which would be a Sunday. She agreed so I got ready to see her the next day at the movies
She was saying stuff in our messages like I didn’t pick up on signs then she said she wanted to kiss so bad. Then I said just go for it next time. Then she said she’ll be bold when we go on our date. She even brought up doing the do in various places.
Fast forward to the movie date I get there in my ride and we pick her up and drive to the theatre. The ride was silent and then when we got out and started talking a lot just random banter. I paid for the tickets. Then I grab her waist as we head to the theatre we’re in. Once we got in our seats we take pictures before the movie starts then when it does it’s pretty slow moving and there aren’t many people in the theatre probably about 6 or 7 people not including us. So I start touching her thigh and she does the same to me and we start touching. Eventually we give each other a look and she wanted to go in for a kiss so I just went for it and gave her a peck and that was my first kiss. Then we do stuff with our hands in the theatre and that was my first time doing that. Then we end up leaving the theatre and she said she wanted to make out and we did right outside of the theatre that was my first time making out with someone.
So after that I went to the bathroom to wipe my face from all the makeup and lip gloss she got on it. Then when I got out the bathroom she was waiting across at the other bathroom then she did the “come here” motion with her finger while smiling really hard. So I ran into the bathroom real quick and we run to the big stall and lock ourselves in. Then she tells me to drop my pants I do and she does the same then she bends over and we do the do. I advise everyone to use protection though even though I did not. And she was on birth control. But anyways people came into the bathroom as I was finishing. But luckily nothing was said. we cleaned up silently and then when they left I ran out the bathroom to the other bathroom to clean myself up and my shirt.
I told her I was a virgin afterwards and she didn’t believe me at first bc apparently I was super calm about it. But it’s bc I stopped worrying about it as I got older so I didn’t see it too much as a big thing anymore. At least not as much as I did a couple years ago.
As for the experience I stayed hard the whole time but I did stop watching porn and masturbating about a week before. It did feel good as well but it’s really bc you’re doing it with somebody and you get to touch them. Other than that I wouldn’t say you’re missing too much. It doesn’t make me feel greater about myself like I thought it would nor does it make me feel any different. If you made it this far I love you ❤️
With that all being said, it’s been real virgin community. Thank you to all the people that made convo with me throughout the years. I will be lurking but I will no longer be making posts. Feel free to ask me anything if you have any questions. Good luck to all the virgins out there!