Both my girlfriend and I have been together since 2022. Recently, ive been having this issue because she's really emotionally insensitive, while im VERY sensitive, and always have been.
So the other night, I was driving for DoorDash and got lost, and its 1am. She had told me multiple times prior to go home, but currently im in a lot of debt, and she knows this, so I simply told her I couldnt. I was driving around in circles and was growing very stressed and I expressed this to her.
She then went on to say "This is why I told your ahh to go home, now you're lost. Was it worth it?" etc. While im still in this random town in the middle of nowhereville, trying to get my GPS to work. The whole reason I was even out in the first place was because I dropped my mom off at the hospital, and she said to stay nearby. But I took a wrong turn, and I ended up lost.
In the middle of her ranting, I felt myself getting even more stressed and my heart feeling heavy, so I hung up on her. She then went on to text me "Why tf would you hang up when you said you're scared. That doesnt make any sense" but I was so overwhelmed I couldnt handle anything she was saying. That was on the 26th. We havent spoken since.
Now, Im left with the decision Im always left to make whenever we fight. Whenever Peach(not her real name)and I fight, she never apologizes, even when its SO clearly her fault. I hate confrontation and always end up apologizing first, but the situation had me so angry im still holding out from talking to her. The thing is, she can go days, even weeks without talking to me if I dont apologize first, and its carving into my heart everytime I think about it. Ive tried talking with her about it several times, but in her point of view, she hates feeling like she did something wrong (as anyone does) and it seems she just refuses to acknowledge anything that may point to that conclusion.
I really dont know what to do. Before, I always gave in, and tried anything to get her to talk to me again, even buying her food and snacks that she rarely says thank you for. Im just lost honestly, and any help would be great, because I feel myself on the verge of shattering.