u/Glass_Bee_8701

I have my life together: Master’s degree, great career, solid friends, and a 4x/week gym routine. I enjoy my hobbies and alone time, yet I still crave a romantic relationship to an almost unhealthy degree.
Because I want it so badly, I keep attracting love bombers. I’ve deleted the dating apps because they were becoming traumatizing, but I can’t seem to "turn off" the longing.
I’m already "focusing on myself," so how do I actually stop this craving? I want to get to a place where a partner is a "want," not a desperate "need," so I can stop falling for the wrong men.
TL;DR: Successful 25F off the apps but obsessed with finding love. How do I kill the craving so I stop attracting toxic cycles?