u/Glass-Marionberry924

I am a 43 year old newbie, who just planned a romantic getaway with my first female love (she’s very gorgeous). My ways of lovemaking are male-centric, and I don’t know how to shift my mind or my efforts.

Aside from ‘communication’ and ‘just go with the flow’ (which are both very healthy and sane ways to learn more about her, and I am definitely planning on doing that), this late-bloomer is desperate for some solid tips or tricks.

The idea that women are hard to please has been ingrained in me for about 25 years.

If you had 20 years’ worth of extra knowledge, what would you need from me?

EDIT: Thank you everyone so much! You are my rock stars, I will post the successful update soon ;)