My girlfriend and I still haven't had sex
Hey guys, this is one of my few posts that I've ever made on Reddit ever but I've heard of so many Reddit stories and such.. anyway. My gf (F 20) and I (20M) haven't had sex in our 3 year relationship. For context, I am not a virgin however she is and this is her first more serious relationship. We have also done some things just never the "final act".
I love her so much and the way we talk about the future is the way I want it, everything in our relationship is absolutely amazing and I have nothing but love for her. The only part lacking is our physical intimacy.
It's kind of a mix of a few things.
She has a low sex drive - which isn't awful and that's not smth she can control
She can't/doesn't want to initiate - it is difficult, I don't really have a problem with initiating however she is difficult to read sometimes and I never want to force her into sex
Opportunity - we both still live at home so actively trying isn't the easiest
I'm just not sure what to do. I love her so much but I don't wanna pressure her into sex or anything but she does say she wants to do it.. so.. help please Reddit?