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My gf [23F] is very upset and angry because I [23M] haven’t proposed to her yet

Me (23M) and my gf (23F) have been in a relationship for 6 years. It’s got to a point that she wants me to propose to her and get engaged. We have recently come on holiday together and it has been very romantic. It has been such a perfect holiday however recent events have changed that. She recently got very upset because I haven’t proposed to her while being on holiday, she even stated that all of her family thought I was going to propose on this holiday. While she was upset I really didn’t know what to say because no matter what I said it just made her more upset. It’s got to a point where she doesn’t even talk to me and doesn’t want me around her. The reason why I haven’t thought about getting engaged yet is because I’m going through some major life changes. I have tried explaining this to her but she seems to think I’m only thinking about myself rather than the both of us but the reason why my life is changing so much is to better our relationship to ensure we are ready for such a life long commitment. I just don’t know what to do.

Also I’m sorry if the spelling or grammer is bad I am dyslexic

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u/Glad_Medicine_9582 — 3 days ago

My gf [23F] is very upset and angry because I [23M] haven’t proposed to her yet

Me (23M) and my gf (23F) have been in a relationship for 6 years. It’s got to a point that she wants me to propose to her and get engaged. We have recently come on holiday together and it has been very romantic. It has been such a perfect holiday however recent events have changed that. She recently got very upset because I haven’t proposed to her while being on holiday, she even stated that all of her family thought I was going to propose on this holiday. While she was upset I really didn’t know what to say because no matter what I said it just made her more upset. It’s got to a point where she doesn’t even talk to me and doesn’t want me around her. The reason why I haven’t thought about getting engaged yet is because I’m going through some major life changes. I have tried explaining this to her but she seems to think I’m only thinking about myself rather than the both of us but the reason why my life is changing so much is to better our relationship to ensure we are ready for such a life long commitment. I just don’t know what to do.

Also I’m sorry if the spelling or grammer is bad I am dyslexic

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u/Glad_Medicine_9582 — 3 days ago