u/Glad-Garlic2563

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Every time I talk to people, it seems like I don't have much to talk about or have opinions. Even if I have some opinions, they are generally opposed or wronged by others. It seems like I don't have any opinion that people agree on. I am an introvert as well and I have a difficult time making friends especially best friends because I feel like I adjust a lot based on others preference like people pleaser.

I am smart and good at work, but I feel worthless and messed up. I don't like to call relatives or friends to keep up with them even when I know i should do it.

I don't know if there is anything that can help me with this since one cannot change who they are, maybe to some extent only.

So I was hoping to give a chance to the reddit community as a last resort to see if anyone had a way to get out of this.

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u/Glad-Garlic2563 — 11 days ago