u/Gish_ASide

My (23M) gf (22F) had an account on the fans app and I don’t know what to do?

My (23M) girlfriend (22F) has recently informed me that she had an account on the fans app (not gonna name it I don’t really know if it’s allowed or not, but I believe you will get the reference), which has made me go totally insane.
I don’t personally have anything against the app, not my cup of tea and that’s it, however when my girlfriend told me that she used to have one, and was actually selling her pictures for money, something in my brain just clicked and basically I can’t stop thinking about it. This might be a bit over the top, but there’s a feeling in my head that she would leave me if someone “outbids” me.
For context I have never actually thought that she’s with me just for the money, diners or whatever, and I would be VERY surprised if that turned out to be true, but I just can’t get the thought out of my head.
She has already planned our dream house and our wedding, and I would kinda feel like shit if I left her right now, but I would also feel like shit if I stayed with her while thinking in my head that she would do anything with another man for the right amount of money. It’s been 2 days since she announced that, and I am still battling my head to not go insane, and I honestly don’t know what to do about this. Please help 🙏

Edit: Thank you so much everyone for responding to this, it’s genuinely helpful. Y’all are the best.

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