u/Gingervenus666

I 30f and my boyfriend 41m have been dating for two years and one thing that has turned me off from every partner is being randomly groped. Like when i say groped I mean before work my boyfriend and I were joking with each other and hugging and he grabbed my v*gina through my pants. He does this a lot and it turns off my playful mood immediately. These are time where we are not about to get freaky mind you, I just got back from the gym and I’m sweaty and my sister is here upstairs and he knows that. His excuse is we are in a relationship and I’m his girlfriend this is how people touch each other. He’s upset right now because I told him it really kills it for me when he gropes me. And now he’s not talking to me, how can I explain to him that it’s not an aversion to him it’s just me not wanting my v*gina grabbed when we hug? 😪