u/GingerTea_1

I believe that my spouse was cheating, at minimum there was an emotional affair, but I believe it was physical as well. He denied it. I have some evidence (phone records), behavior patterns, but short of hiring a private investigator, I can’t/wont be able to know for sure. It seems pretty obvious to me, I know the woman and they have been friends for years, but he won’t admit it. We are separated and will be divorcing. I would really like to know when it started and whether they were physical while we were together. I’d like to have some closure, but at this point I don’t know if I ever will. Any advice? It won’t make a difference legally for the divorce (no fault), but it’s still weighing on me. How do you get closure in this case?