u/Gh124

Need someone professional and not a scam. Need to get something checked urgently.

I’ve been with my girlfriend for 4+ years and our families are involved. We were planning to get married soon. About a year ago I moved abroad for my master’s, and since then things have slowly changed.

She’s become really distant: dry texts, barely talks on calls, no affection at all. I visited Pak a few months ago and even in person it felt off. Now it’s worse. Every time I try to talk about it, she just says she’s tired or doesn’t have the energy.

There have been a couple situations that didn’t sit right with me (like being unreachable during a “sleepover” and vague work stuff), but whenever I bring anything up, she says I’m overthinking or being disrespectful.

If I try to talk about it she blames it on me saying stuff like its me who wants to get out of this and Im just finding ways.

I don’t know if this is just long distance messing things up or if something’s actually wrong. Am I overthinking this or does this seem off?

Anyone heading to &Me in LA from NorCal? I’m 26M based in Sacramento and really want to go, but none of my friends are into this kind of music lol. Down to link up or carpool if anyone’s in the same boat.