u/Getslikethatuno

Hi I’m 25(m) I’ve had a girlfriend for the past 2 years but beginning of march she said she wanted a break which only lasted 2 days before she came back but during that weekend I had hit up 2 females who I was talking to prior to my relationship but never had intercourse with one I’ll refer to as K I had intercourse with her on the 6th and the 18th the other female I’ll refer to as A I was with once on the 14th all times were unprotected btw on the 17th (yes the day before K the second time) I experienced a pain when peeing around a 2/10 but on the 19th it was a 10/10 which prompted me to contact both ppl immediately also telling my girlfriend because she could tell something’s up she broke up with me same night but when I called K it was very weird because she was very apologetic as if to say she done this to me whilst A showed me her recent Sti test assuring she hasn’t gotten or given me anything. After trying effortlessly of trying to get a test I finally get one on the 21st which I was also given doxycycline which is for Sti and after 2 days of use the pain had gone I was starting to put it behind me when on 25th K called me crying saying she may have herpes as because I told her to get tested she got tested that day saying the doc said it looks like herpes she says she first noticed the bump 2 days prior (4 days after I was with her) I’ve honestly not been the same since as if on Que to her telling me this a wave of other symptoms started to hit me 1st my scrotum was burning then over the next few days my legs buttocks and joints felt a nerve pain which lasted about 4 days from then onwards I’ve been experiencing a burning sensation between my scrotum and legs best way to describe it is like someone having a string and slowly moving it up and down where my scrotum meets legs I had that on and of for about 10 days as I’ve recent 2 days I still get that pain but toned down a bunch now it’s mainly itching on my scrotum and on my penis head. The girl K talks to me as if what happened never happened and when I ask about the test she took via swab she says she still hasn’t got results yet which is weird because it’s been about 10 days now. I’ve only told one person in my life and it’s my best friend I act calm about it secretly I’m really scared the test results for Sti came back negative for everything but they didn’t test herpes it’s been about 18 days since exposure now and I haven’t had any cold sores or blisters and my girlfriend has taken me back just asking that I get tested before being with her when I ask chat gpt it says my chances are low since no sores or blisters have appeared after 18 days and the fact when it hurt when peeing there were no sores visible but I’m worried I have a blood test in 4 days and will find out after that but I’m just asking for advice or men to let me know what symptoms they experienced. Thank you for reading I’ll be happy to answer any questions