This is my very first Reddit post so please forgive me for any mistakes :') Also English isn't my mouther tounge so please excuse any grammar/wording mistakes 😞
I was told "Oh you have to be happy with being alone so you can be happy in a relationship" but then every damn wedding or whatever including couples I keep hearing "I'm the happiest person ever being with you." Like wth is this? Maybe I am being dumb but I am starting to believe this is a contradiction.
People keep telling me "Oh just be happy about not being in a relationship and the moment you least expect it someone will come along and sweep you off your feet" but at this point I am starting to believe this is horeshit. I am filling up my personal calendar with events, hobbies and just stuff but nothing ever comes along or I dont know.
Btw these comments keep coming from people that are in a relationship (most of the time being happy).
Has anyone else ever experienced this or am I just being dumb? Do I have to be content with being single before going into a relationship or can you start being content in a relationship? I hope this makes sense :/
EDIT: Wow its only been 20 minutes and I have already recvieved a lot of good insight 😄 Thank you to everyone! 😃