29F doesn't get along with husband's 26M best friend
I absolutely love my husband, which is the only reason I will tolerate having his best friend in my house. I have not and will never be the wife that tells her husband who he can and cannot hang out with, however I have made it very clear that I don't appreciate his friend. I have not always disliked this friend, he used to date my best friend and we would double date every weekend. Everything was going fine and then one day he dumped her out of the blue saying he didn't see them being happy together in the future. This did not immediately affect my relationship with him. Shortly after, I was hanging out with his now ex and she told me that he used to tell her that I was a total bitch and he hoped that she never turned out like me. He would also tell her that I was too obsessed over money and my husband, but then would turn around and gladly stay the night at my house and eat my food. My husband has not told his friend why I quit speaking to him, his friend just thinks I hate him from breaking up with my friend. Well long story short, my husband is having a group of people over this weekend and the best friend is coming. This is the first time I have allowed him over since the breakup and he and my husband will essentially be hosting this event.
How do I interact with him? I am not interested in forgiving him because he disrespected me and I do not trust him and he has also never tried to talk to me like an adult about the issue; however I still want my husband to have a good time and for the other guests to be comfortable.