Work crush pt 2.
Guys any advice or chat is helpful, also feels like a mini vent lol.
So heres what i had put up on reddit before:
So I’ve been working with my work friend for around 5 years. He’s four years older than me and is seemingly the type to never over share but will happily strike up a conversation. I have had a crush on him always but recently it’s getting stronger, nobody seems to know if he’s with someone already or has a wife etc so it’s tough to realise and I’m never one to be nosy and ask.
The things he does with me and nobody else I know for sure is:
Gives me food on shift If I’m in pain for my period he offers to do things that would help Always checks in on me Does little physical touches here and there Calls me nicknames The odd rude comment but doesn’t mean it in a bad way Glances at me
Please tell me if I’m being delusional but I need to know if this is normal or flirtatious.
** UPADTE **
So as of recent, a mutual friend of ours had decided to ask him straight up if he was single, only for him to ask “whos asking?” And then ended up wanting to know who has a crush on him. Promting them to go a bit back and fourth but alas he knew somehow it was me (our mutual friend he didnt mention my name) but (crush) said to him, “tell her to come tell me or ask me directly if she want to know”.
I was too shy and hesitant to ask especially because it was at work and i dont like to make things awkward but eventually we got kind of distant and the topic wasnt brought back up. But as of last week you could say, we got back to speaking and he even striked up a conversation himself. (Ive also found out he is infact single but likes to play the “nonchalant” guessing game)
Im open to answer anything, i dont want to push him further away, but i do want to know is this being delusional or am i thinking right?