AITA for wanting to leave my BD cause of continuous disrespect and disregard of how I feel?
He has a toxic habit of following half naked girls and thirstraps accounts. I said toxic cause even after I express that I am not comfortable with that, he still continuous to do so and even lies about it right into my face when I confront him. I personally am not a fan of guys in committed relationships (especially the ones with a whole ass family) still looking at other options and naked bodies of other women when you already have a responsible wife (yes I pay half the bills) and a son to take care of at home. What’s the point?
He lied that he did not follow this girl whose content is nothing but boobs and half naked reels, nothing education or informational, but when we downloaded his data, it showed that he actually did. And when he saw there’s proof now, he blatantly blame the data for being false and that he might have just clicked the button accidentally. Yeah right.
In my defense, I hate how he was able to do such thing (knowing I’m not comfortable with it) right in the middle of his life crisis. Yes, he is struggling financially and he’s been asking me to help him which I happily do.
I dont understand and cant accept how he was able to think of doing such thing when his life is already failing? Instead of coming up with solution, to elevate our life (cause we have a newborn son) to overcome this crisis, he instead follow thirstraps?
May I also add that he doesnt give me and my son a quality family time. He plays Dota2 all day, all night even up to 5am, and wakes up 2pm the next day missing breakfast and lunch time with me and my son. The only quality time we spend together is dinner time, which is an hour of his day and after that he hops onto his game again. So am I the asshole for wanting to leave this relationship?