I think I've confirmed why I tend to have this tension with Sag guys (as a Taurus guy)
I saw a clip of Jake Gylenhaal and Henry Cavill talking about their film. Both are very archtypical in appearance to their signs and Cavill so much shows the grounded, raw self-assured presence of Taurus, and I can actually see now why that would intimidate and threaten most people. And it's not about Cavill's universally insane beauty, but more of the aura.